Time is absolutely flying right now!! I cant believe its already the middle of the year!! Its already been over a week since I went out to the reef, and man was that awesome!! We spent the day at the Frankland islands and snorkelled, walked around the island, went on a river cruise... it was so so good!! I have put a pic with this post showing the Islands from the sky, they are just amazing!!
Other than that, ive worked 10 days straight now and im exhausted!!! I work tomorrow then I get a weekend off. Not sure what the plan is for the weekend yet but I am thinking of either camping, or going to townsville to see family, either way it will be nice and relaxing.
Im getting into a much better sleeping and eating pattern now im settled into my new job, and I think thats had a big impact on my moods.
Having a bit of a friend dilemma at the moment though. Not sure how to handle it. My best friend in Cairns who I lived with last year has been seeing a guy for about 4 months. They live together, but since they have been with each other she has dropped all of her other friends and only sees us if he is away (Hes in defence). I didnt worry about it at first, as its a new relationship and I know what thats like, but its now been 4 months and I havent seen her for about 6 weeks. Before they were together I would see her almost daily. He went away yesterday on a work trip, and almost straight away she was calling me wanting to catch up! Me and my other friends are not too happy about the whole thing and feel like we are her reserve friends to entertain her when hes away. But im not sure how to approach her about it. Anyone been in a similar situation? Its not a nice feeling... :(
Hope you are all well.
I have been in a pretty much identical situation. And honestly I dont knwow aht advice to give you. I approached her and i havent heard from her for 2 years. A friend of mine also had a similar situation - with one of her friends and she said she just had to come to terms with it. If she wanted to be this persons friend she felt she couldnt approach her.
ReplyDeleteI mean tha doesnt help you at all! lol maybe have a think about what she will say? Its certinatly a shitty feeling to be in your position. One thing i Wouldnt do is do it as a whole group of you approaching her. You dont want her to feel alienated. Hard spot to be in.
I hope someone has some more sound advice for you! Goodluck!